Too my children

 
Too My children
 
I am writing you this letter because there is so much that I want to say to you. I try to say it in person, but the words never seem to come out right.
Life is hard. It is an ever-winding road with twists and turns. There are speed bumps and potholes along the way, but I want to you to be prepared. I want to you be sure that you have everything that you need in life. I am doing my best to provided you with that, but there are some things that I have come to realize that you will have to find for yourself. I can only tell you about them. Just like at times my mother tried to tell me things and tried to show me the way and me being who I was and who I am I had to find my own way so hear I am writing this down so one day your all alone or just feeling alone in this big world and for some reason you don’t want to ask or just cant I have written some things down for you too look at and read know I am always there for you and I will always listen to your thoughts and cares I love you more then you will ever know so hear we Go …

LOVE AND AFFECTION
 
 
I have loved each of you from the very first time that I realized that I carried you in my womb. My heart filled with joy at each flutter and kick. Then, when you were born, I used to hold you in my arms and rock you to sleep while singing whatever sweet tune filled my heart. I have tried to show you with every breath how much you mean to me and how no matter what I was there and will be . I have tried to give you affection and attention every day of your lives. You could be a million miles away and my love will still reach you or you could be on my lap or in the room beside me just know that I love you and that will never change no matter what you do I will always love you.

EDUCATION IS KEY
 
 
As you grew older, I will send you off to school. I will pray that whatever you learned in those classrooms, you would bring home and share with me so that I might be able to help you. I will sat with you through hours of homework- even when it was stuff that i do not fully understand myself. I will try to work it out with you. I will sit and stare at your text books when you were not around so I could figure out every little detail of what you were having trouble with because I want to be able to take part in your learning process. School is so vary important because with education you can do anything I hope you know that. I struggled in school but I also worked vary hard to achieve it when people said I couldn’t do it and I wouldn’t be able too I worked even harder to prove them wrong. I know how hard it can be in school because it was hard for me but lean on each other and your family because we all excel in different areas in life like some of use are really good in English and some are great in math and others history or French or sports but there is always someone who knows it a little different then you and asking for help may not be easy but it is something that is smart not anyone knows everything and well there are those put in your life for reasons tap into there knowledge and learn from there mistakes and there successes and you will always come out on top trust this and you will make it a little perseverance goes a long way..

　
　
PROBLEMS IN LIFE
 
 
I have never been the best at problem solving for myself but with others I knew how to help. I never let my problems get me down because I believe that you are always in line with something wonderful when something bad happens because that something bad is there to wreck your mood and if you see the ray of sunshine thought that problem then there is always a way out, I have tried to teach each if you to be your self and be loving but to stand up and be counted for as well. I want you to be strong independent and confident. I want you to be better and bolder than I ever could have been, That way, when problems come into you life, you will be able to handle them with honour and decency. I want that for you. I want you to be kind and loving too those who have less and I want you to know that every situation could always be worse and that God wouldn’t give you more then you can handle even though at times it feels that way.

FOLLOW YOUR DREAM
 
 
Whatever inspires you in life, go for it. Don't let any one tell you that you cannot reach your stars. If they were unreachable, they would not be yours. Just please be realistic about your hopes and dreams. Don't aspire to be a singer if you can't carry a tune.
Your dreams are not going to fall in your lap. You will have to work hard to achieve them, but don't give up. Don't lose faith in yourself. Whatever it is that you want in life, you can have. You just have to believe that you are worthy to have it and don't be afraid to go after it. don’t think you wont have too work your butt off to get to those dreams because believe me whatever in this world is worth having takes lots of time and patience and hard work to get there and that’s why its worth having it if it was giving too you on a sliver platter you really wouldn’t want it after a little bit it may be nice at first but after a little time it will fade because you didn’t work for it.. So work hard for your dreams and you can never go wrong…

LOVE AND HAPPINESS
 
 
I wish nothing but love and peace in your lives. I know that they will not always come, but know that it is possible. When you are old enough to find that special someone in life that you want to share all of your hopes and dreams, failures and successes, and laughter and tears with, hold on to them. True love is fading away in this world. If fate leads you to it, don't be afraid to take it and hold on to it. Love is so vary important those who love you and that you love will always be there at times you may feel alone in love but remember that like I said before nothing in life is worth it if you don’t have to work for it love is the same way it takes lots of work there will be some days you just hat each other and others you want to hold on all day so do so and work though it because love is one of those things you don’t want too loss out on…

TAKE IT WITH A GRAIN OF SALT
 
 
There will always be someone in life that will treat you wrong. Take it with a grain of salt. It may leave a bitter taste in your mouth, but you can always spit it out later. Don't let anger and hatred take you to places that you don't want to go. If you fill yourself with these negative emotions, then you leave little or no room for any thing positive. So think positive and always treat other’s how you would like to be treated because how you treat other’s is how they will treat you show them love and not hate show them respect and care about there needs as well as your own ..

REMEMBER THAT MOMMY LOVES YOU
 
 
Whatever and wherever you go in life, remember that your mother loves you. If there was one thing that I could do in life to shield any one of you from one day's harm, I would do without hesitation. I would lay down my life just to make you smile- if that's what it would take. I have struggled and sacrificed every day just to keep you happy and safe, and if I were able to go back and start my life again, I would not change a thing. I would gladly do it all over again for you. You are my reasons for getting up in the morning. You are reasons for trying so hard in life. Without you, life would just be another day, week , month or year . I just hope that see the love I have for you and see that it will never fade and I hope that you will always show me your love for me like you have so far because those little moments that mean nothing to others mean the world too me like when you give me a hug and a kiss and curl up in my lap and fall asleep in my arms those mean the world too your dear old mother.

BE YOUR OWN PEOPLE
 
 
Never let anyone force you into being someone that you are not. Be who you are. Remember that you were born in love and you grew up in love and that is the path that you should follow. Find you strengths and don't be ashamed of your weaknesses. Hold your head up high. Be individual. There is only one you, so try to be that person and don’t form him/her into someone else.
Well, that is all that I have to say for now. I hope that you read my words and know that you are loved. I hope that the joys that you have given me in my l life, come back to you ten fold, and that the sorrows that I have faced, never come to you. These are words from my heart to yours. Take them in and keep them in a special place inside of you.
　
Love always,
Your mother.